Jesus is the Answer
And are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone: Ephesians 2:20

In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,